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How to Pick a Puppy That’s Right for You?

The decision to add a dog to your family could be taken in a split-second, but pick a puppy that perfectly suits your requirements and taste is never an easy task.

More often than not, many people ignorantly consider only the “Cuteness Factor” when they want to choose a puppy. You too might be thinking about going down that same path (there is a lot more to selecting a puppy than just cuteness).

Everybody loves a cute dog, and I do, too, but there are other equally or even serious factors that I find necessary to be when looking for a good puppy. Interesting, isn’t it?

The very first advice I give to anyone who wants to add a puppy to his/her family is that you should never make the mistake of choosing the puppy which runs straight towards you i.e.

You should be the one who chooses the puppy and not the puppy choosing you.

Most families always make the mistake of choosing an energetic, bold, and vigorous pet who starts all the fun stuff, such as grabbing the toys, jumping all over your body, or getting hold of the leg of your trousers, all accompanied by an adorable growl.

These types of puppies are definitely exciting to play with, but I assure you that this will only last for an hour or two at the breeder’s house, and when you finally take them home, they will be a nuisance and you can’t training them with ease.

Border Collie PuppyFor instance, an example of a breathtakingly cute puppy that everyone will love to keep as a companion for the rest of their lives is the Border Collie Pup.

It’s so cute that you are tempted to buy it immediately, but trust me, this is the type of decision which can cause lots of problems along the way.

The disadvantage of the Border Collie breed is that it is among the most energetic and smartest dogs nowadays. You are required to stimulate it physically and mentally every day.

Lack of such stimulation causes the dog to be very destructive and annoying. I don’t think there is anybody who will comfortable with such a situation.

You can get a puppy from many places such as a neighbor, a friend, dog shelter or pound, a newspaper ad, a rescue center, or a breeder.

In the next paragraphs, you’ll find some of the basic tips to think about and consider when you’re looking to add a new, furry member to your family.

And regardless of where you decide to buy the puppy from, make use of these tips as they will go a long way to help you pick the most suitable puppy for you or your family.

I have outlined some of these essential tips in the guide below:

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Pick a Puppy – Selecting the Perfect Breed:

I will suggest that you locate a breed that suits your family’s lifestyle before you go out to search for the perfect puppy.

You may consider all dogs to be the same if you haven’t owned several breeds of dogs before. There are of the same species because they have the same body structure:

They have a wagging tail, four legs, the ability to bark, a tongue which they use for licking, the ability to bite, chew, and enjoy belly rubs.

It is of utmost importance that we remember each breed has a unique look, needs, and personality, the same for you and your other family members.

I have outlined some of the things you need to take into consideration when choosing a breed below.

  • The composition of your family, i.e., the ages;
  • Your home’s size;
  • The regular leisure activities you carry out with your family;
  • If you have access to a fenced yard;
  • Your level of activity;
  • The amount of time you have to spend with your puppy;
  • The reason for which you purchased the pup (agility, working, hunting, companion, obedience and so on);
  • The types of dogs breed you like;
  • Your income (it is more expensive to cater for a larger breed than a smaller one).

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Take note that there are several types of canine companions other than the purebred species.

Most people always go for purebreds, thinking they are the most suitable. However, I’ve noticed that many mixed-breed puppies are searching for homes in which they can be loved and who are also very loving, caring, intelligent, and loyal.

Healthwise, I will also recommend the mixed breed pups (like Gerberian ShepskyMini Goldendoodle, Maltipoo. etc.), thanks to the fact that they are usually stronger and much healthier. Plus, they ever inherit the hereditary health complications that many purebreds face.

You can find the mixed breeds in several ways, but I’ll also advise that you avoid purchasing them from pet shops and puppy mills.

It is worth mentioning that there are thousands of dogs, including all sizes, breeds, and ages in rescue societies and pounds who are waiting patiently for a lovely family to find them.

If you adopt a puppy from one of these lonely pooches or rescue organizations (which may die young if they are not adopted), there is a high possibility that you will live a happy life with them provided you shower the pup with love and care it needs.

From my experience, I have noticed that rescued dogs love their owners unconditionally as they seem to be aware of the second chance, which has been granted to them.

How to Choose a Puppy From a Litter:

It is a very tricky procedure when you are picking the perfect puppy for your household. The reason for this being that the puppies in a litter all look alike, and you can’t look at this jumble of squirming, chubby little pups, and not be tempted to take one home.

The first thing you need to do when you enter a pet shop to choose a pup is to observe and evaluate the pup litter as a group.

If the litter is made up of four pups and three are staying close to you and barking at you, this litter is probably very risky. As for the fourth puppy, it might be that it hasn’t developed those distrustful and shy genes yet.

It is not advisable for you to pick a puppy that runs away from you or tucks its tail.

When I stand in front of a litter of pups, I have just one aim. I search for the healthiest puppy with the temperament/personality that catches my eye. It’s not all about cuteness.

All the puppies are usually very adorable and charming and will be so tempting. But at this point, I will advise you to keep emotions aside and make a healthy choice. I know this is not an easy task, but you will have to try.

Choosing an unhealthy pup paves the way for high vet bills, causes a lot of heartaches, and is generally a terrible idea. You will need regular vet visits and loads of care to keep the puppy healthy, getting rid of diseases and parasites.

Healthy puppies in the puppy litter are usually curious, trusting, and friendly. You will see them run around your feet, play with your shoelaces, nibble at your fingers, and always try to crawl into your lap.

You can distinguish such puppies from the way they interact with the members of their litter. You have to take note of the pups, which are:

  1. Outgoing, active, noisy and bossy;
  2. Submissive, quiet and gentle;
  3. Win tugs of wars and grab most of the toys;
  4. Delicate or bullied.

Puppy Litter

Puppies learn lots of habits from their littermates and mommas. So they should stay for at least eight weeks with their doggie companions so that they can benefit from this critical canine education.

I will not advise you to take a 5 to 6 weeks old puppy just because the breeder says their momma has stopped breastfeeding them, claiming they are good to go. Such breeders do not have the interest of those puppies at heart.

Dogs start weaning their puppies when they reach 3 to 4 weeks, and it is at this point that the human caretaker has to intervene and begin feeding the pups with solid food (AD).

Those who breed pups in their backyards or puppy mills prefer to sell their puppies during this period as they don’t want to spend money buying good food for them.

It is not suitable for the puppy, and I see this as a sign of irresponsibility on the side of the breeder.

I wouldn’t want anyone to pick a pup from such a breeder.

The Sex of the Puppy: Male or Female:

Talking about the sex of the puppy, I don’t think you can regard any sex as better than the other. Puppies are like humans on this subject of gender.

Sex generally has a limited influence on the intelligence, behavior, personality, etc. of the dogs.

The puppy’s temperament and personality depend on its upbringing and genetics rather than its sex.

Even though the sex is not a determining factor, there are several differences between the female and male, which you have to consider when picking a pup. They are as follows:

Female Pup/Dog:

Female dogs face the “season” immediately; they reach the stage of sexual maturity, which is once or three times annually (this depends on the dog as well as its breed).

This situation isn’t a problem faced by the dog but its owner. You have to take note that her season lasts for an approximated period of three weeks, and she will bleed for some time during that period.

Doggy DiapersThose who have elegant furniture, carpets, or practice sleeping with their dog in bed will undoubtedly face a lot of challenges to respect the destruction of valuable property.

Nevertheless, I will advise you to purchase doggy-diapers (AD) which are made specifically for this season.

If you are a female puppy owner, you will need to make her used to these diapers, or she will rip them apart and get on with her business smoothly every time you try them on.

Another issue will be trying to keep her away from the male dogs in the neighborhood who will seek her attention.

When dogs need to satisfy their natural urges, they become very innovative. i.e., females have gotten impregnated through fences linked with chains.

Male Pup/Dog:

Male dogs also have their problems. One of these problems is the fact that any un-neutered male will feel the natural urge to visit any fertile female dog around the neighborhood, and you’ll be amazed at the distance your male dog will walk to respond to the pheromones sent by the female dog.

Moreover, strong and bold males are more likely to engage themselves in dogfights as they seek to prove their superiority to all the other contenders in the neighborhood.

Generally, male dogs are a nuisance with their habit of “spraying” or “marking.”

This habit has done by urinating on anything the dog considers to be in his possession. They use it to indicate to other dogs that they should stay away from that particular thing in the dog community.

He may decide to mark rose bushes, trees, a fence-post, or the side of your house to make his point clear, and that would have been OK if it was done only outside.

The real problem sets in when he starts marking and spraying property inside the house, such as the bed frame, sofa, front door, and dining table.

Nevertheless, house-training your pup early can reduce or eliminate this problem as it doesn’t surface till he reaches the early adulthood or adolescent stage.

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Pick a Puppy – Final Word:

The points above provide some necessary explanations of the main things you need to know when going out to choose the right pup for your family.

Some of the problems highlighted in this guide may not show up at the moment of purchase, but later on, while the puppy grows up.

It is advisable that you invest sufficient effort and time in the selection of your perfect pup, which will become an integral part of your family for a very long time.

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  1. Jenna Hunter August 22, 2019
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